In this heartfelt interview, Rebecca sits down with Stella, a woman raised by a shamanic, spiritually attuned mother who once booked a spontaneous one-way ticket with her kids to the Amazon. Together, they explore what it actually looks like to grow up inside a soul-led life, navigate divorce across countries, and still arrive at deep gratitude for both parents. Stella shares:
What it was like to be four years old in the Amazon and how early travel cracked her world open to magic, diversity, and possibility
The powerful lesson of respect she learned from a tribe’s treasured, years-old bottle of Fanta
How watching her mom choose her dreams (and move the family to Argentina) gave her a living blueprint for courage
What it really felt like to be a child in a long, international, high-conflict divorce and custody situation
The hardest decision she ever made: choosing to cut contact with her father—and how that paradoxically allowed her to love and learn from him more deeply
Why speaking badly about the other parent cuts a child at the core, and how kids internalize “50% of me must be bad”
How children often step into the role of “resolver” and grow up too fast, and what parents need to watch for
They also dive into:
Seeing healing as something you do for yourself first rather than something you perform “for your kids”
Why trying to control which patterns your children repeat dilutes your own inner work
The importance of order in the family system and finding your “rightful place” so you’re supported by your lineage instead of drained by it
At the end, Stella shares how she now supports others through Akashic Records sessions and group Family Constellations, helping people bring order to their family systems and stand firmly in their own lives. This episode is for you if:
You’re a divorced or divorcing parent terrified of “ruining” your kids
You’re a cycle-breaker doing inner work and wondering how it lands in your lineage
You’re curious about family systems, ancestral healing, and soul-led parenting
You want to hear a grown child of divorce speak honestly, lovingly, and powerfully about her parents and her own path
Listen in for nuanced, tender medicine on parenting, boundaries, gratitude, and healing the family line, without abandoning yourself. Connect with Stella: Call to Fly: https://paa.ge/call.to.fly/en?tab=links Instagram: / call_to_fly Connect with me: The Risen Collective: https://therisencollective.co Instagram/Tiktok/Facebook: @therisencollective.co Join my Community: https://www.skool.com/the-risen-siste...
